#NonficNov Review: Goodbye, Things

November 25, 2020 Uncategorized 10 ★★★★

#NonficNov Review: Goodbye, ThingsTitle: Goodbye, Things: The New Japanese Minimalism
Author: Fumio Sasaki, Eriko Sugita
Source: Library
Links: Bookshop (affiliate link) |Goodreads

Summary: Helpful tips presented with recognition that minimalism won’t look the same for everyone made this a helpful, accessible, though sometimes repetitive, guide.

I’m moving across the country in about a week and moving always makes me want to get rid of everyone I own, so this book on Japanese minimalism was the right book at the right time for me. Although it had a few flaws, it was a calming, easy read full of helpful tips. The first half, in particular, worked for me. The second half was a little less helpful and made some grandiose claims, but there’s enough good here that I still enjoyed the book overall.

The author begins by sharing the story of his own life before and after adopting minimalist practices. He shares pictures of his own apartment, before and after, that make me what he did feel more achievable. He also shares pictures of several friend’s apartments or travel bags, showing the many different ways people interpret minimalist practices to fit their own needs. Throughout, the author presents his own approach humbly. I appreciated his acknowledgement that minimalism won’t be the same for everyone. Instead, the practice is supposed to allow everyone to determine what they consider essential.

The first half of the book also included a helpful list of tips. While they weren’t all useful or applicable for me, I made notes of about half of them that I thought would provide me with practical help and mental rules for what I might want to get rid of. For me, this was the heart of the book. It’s the part I’m most likely to refer to again and actually make use of. The whole book, but particularly this section, was written in small, easily processed segments. Since my brain has had any easier time processing short-form writing lately, this was perfect for me. I also found something about the author’s tone calm and soothing. This was a great read for a busy, stressed out time in my life.

The last of the half of the book didn’t work as well for me. Although the author had earlier been very clear that minimalism won’t be the same for everyone, he makes some very broad claims about how he thinks it will impact people’s lives in this second half. Apparently if you become a minimalist, you’re likely to see benefits that range from losing weight to a better relationship with your spouse. I don’t know about you, but if I adopted the author’s very spare approach to minimalism, it would not reduce conflict within my marriage! The author did cite some interesting research on happiness, which I enjoyed, but nothing that validated the claims he was making.

I would recommend this book if you want to reduce the amount of stuff you own. I found it a soothing, comfortable read even during a stressful month. It also included a lot of helpful tips and clearly offers the reader permission to take what works for them and leave the rest. The second half of the book was barely worth reading for me, fleshing out the author’s story that we’d already heard with grandiose claims. It might work better for others, as it does expand on his philosophy, but personally, I’d happily re-read the first half and skip the rest. I liked it enough that I am very much looking forward to reading the author’s next book, Hello, Habits, to be released in early January, just as I’m trying to settle into a new routine after moving. Hopefully it will improve upon the flaws of the first book, while keeping the strengths. It certainly seems likely to also line up really well with where I am in life!

10 Responses to “#NonficNov Review: Goodbye, Things”

  1. Iza

    I hear you, it would not reduce conflict in my life either, with my companion or with my kids – especially the youngest ! My youngest loves Japan but clearly, minimalism isn’t part of it. But it’s true that clearing the space around you brings some peace and satisfaction. I already cleared during the first lockdown, but there is still work to do… It looks like an interesting book, thanks for sharing 🙂
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    • DoingDewey

      A few pieces of advice like that really reminded me that the author was single and didn’t have children! I agree though that there can be real satisfaction in a cleaner, emptier space 🙂

  2. Jade @ Reading with Jade

    Books like this are always good for giving us a nudge in the right direction when we need to get on with a task ourselves – such as moving across the country (good luck with that by the way). I also like that the pictures included sound like they show minimalism for different people, and I’m all about minimalism presented a different picture from person to person. I’ll keep an eye out for this; thanks for sharing!
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    • DoingDewey

      Thanks, Jade! Hopefully it will all go smoothly. The many different perspectives on minimalism made this feel much more accessible to me and definitely made it easier to recommend to book to people who aren’t looking to get rid of everything they own 🙂

  3. Lisa of Hopewell

    I got rid of at least 1/3 of what my 2 kids and I owned when we moved her 12 years ago. Except for one heirloom I accidentally gave away and my records (which I did not see coming back so strongly into style and turntables reappearing) we have missed NOTHING. If you want to downsize I highly recommend a trip to Ikea to help visualize the amount of space. It was a life-saver. Good luck!
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    • DoingDewey

      Wow, good for you on the downsizing! I’ve found it unusual that I miss things I get rid of in my own life too and with a few exceptions, it has mostly been possible to replace any little things I do wish I still had. I’m sorry to hear a few of the things you regretted were less replaceable! Thanks for the good wishes.

  4. tracybham

    I think I would enjoy this (or at least the first half) just because I like to read good ideas about minimalism. I haven’t made much progress in that area though. I mean in some areas we already are minimalist, but then I have problems getting rid of things I already have.

    • DoingDewey

      It really is a fascinating topic, as well as a goal I’m interested in getting closer to. After reading this, I’ve found myself adding more books on the topic to my to-read list all the time 🙂

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